RC 260812Power FMKefentse Mkhari
Wednesday, 12 August 2026
A wide-ranging overnight show centred on waiting seasons, forgiveness as a mental-health issue, and the damage caused when co-parenting disputes are turned into social-media content.
- 01:40
Social worker Nombuiselo Peni Letoilo urged parents to stop using TikTok’s Abonli trend to shame absent fathers, saying maintenance disputes should go through family intervention, social workers and court processes, not public humiliation.
- 01:44
Letoilo warned that posting a child’s father online can leave the child ashamed, confused and resentful for years, and said children should never be used as evidence in parental disputes.
- 00:35
Pastor Kettoma Mbiza and life coach Kopelo Shikwambana argued that a waiting season is for character-building, not passivity: it exposes pride, comparison, fear and unhealthy relationships, and can be used to grow, serve and heal.
- 02:09
Mental health activist Mfundo Dandani said forgiveness is a transformational process, not “forgive and forget”, and warned that long-held anger and bitterness can fuel depression, anxiety, emotional stagnation and fractured relationships.