RC 260924702Aubrey Masango
Thursday, 24 September 2026
Heritage Day framed wide-ranging conversations on pathological lying, relationship skills lost through social isolation, and South Africa’s complex, shared cultural histories.
- 20:28
Clinical psychologist Dr Malebo Mashaba distinguished persistent, purposeless lying from ordinary dishonesty, urging observation of patterns, assessment of impact and firm boundaries rather than casual diagnosis.
- 21:21
Relationship coach Duduzile Maton Sela linked failing romances to hyper-individualised living, loneliness and lost interpersonal skills, recommending exposure to community, conflict and communication instead of expecting one partner to meet every need.
- 22:34
Bronwyn Simon described becoming a Sangoma after a 2009 calling and six-month initiation in Snake Park, while warning that self-taught practitioners undermine the tradition.
- 23:32
The closing Heritage Day reflection argued that South African identity is shaped by generations of hidden interracial relationships and shared histories, challenging simplified racial narratives of the country.