RC 260924702Aubrey Masango

Thursday, 24 September 2026

Heritage Day framed wide-ranging conversations on pathological lying, relationship skills lost through social isolation, and South Africa’s complex, shared cultural histories.

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  1. 20:28

    Clinical psychologist Dr Malebo Mashaba distinguished persistent, purposeless lying from ordinary dishonesty, urging observation of patterns, assessment of impact and firm boundaries rather than casual diagnosis.

  2. 21:21

    Relationship coach Duduzile Maton Sela linked failing romances to hyper-individualised living, loneliness and lost interpersonal skills, recommending exposure to community, conflict and communication instead of expecting one partner to meet every need.

  3. 22:34

    Bronwyn Simon described becoming a Sangoma after a 2009 calling and six-month initiation in Snake Park, while warning that self-taught practitioners undermine the tradition.

  4. 23:32

    The closing Heritage Day reflection argued that South African identity is shaped by generations of hidden interracial relationships and shared histories, challenging simplified racial narratives of the country.